Suseng & Jessica by Steve |
25.03.2011 |
First overseas wedding of the year was in Jakarta. What was so different about this wedding was:
- it was on my birthday!
- it’s Fiona’s brother’s wedding!
- as i said before, it’s in Jakarta!
- a sniper in a wedding (a real one, not camera ‘snipers’!)
- a president (a real one too!)….hehehheh
Never having met Suseng before, we were whisked to his place on the morning of the wedding day and started to snap away right after our brief introductions. Suseng had presented Hermes ties to all his heng tais and that added a nice touch of yellowish gold to their already smart suits and off they went to pick up the bride from her place back to Suseng’s place for the massive tea ceremony. When i say massive, it’s because his family is huge! I think at least 150 – 200 (if not more) people were in his house at that point.
It rained cats and dogs but i heard that it’s a sign of good luck to have it rain really heavily on your wedding day. Unless you plan to have an outdoor garden wedding, then you’d need to have Fiona to shoot your wedding because not only is she a really good photographer, she can ‘mind control’ weather too!
After the Tea Ceremony, we then adjourned to Hyatt’s “On Five”, a cozy little area next to the pool where the Church ceremony was held. Decorated with pretty white flowers, crystals, drapes and a woolly walk-in carpet, the place look amazingly dreamy, like in an enchanted white forest!
It was quite an emotional moment when Suseng read his vows and teared up, which made his lovely bride, Jessica tear up as well, together with a whole lot of other guests. There were many tissues being passed around that day! The cutest part was that both Jessica & Suseng had their vows on cue cards held up for them by a bridesmaid and bestman, just in case…



















The wedding reception the next day can be described in one word…..MASSIVE! When i say massive, i mean massive! And it was really ….. here it comes again… MASSIVE!
It all started with the family photos. A local Indonesian photographer was assigned to shoot the formal family portraits but i managed to steal some shots using a slow shutter (Hence the motion blur!). With a huge family, you must have a huge backdrop, and you must have huge lights to light up the entire huge family. Did i say huge too many times? The picture below is Fiona and her 8 other brothers and sisters! (1 sister missing as she had to rush back to HK!) And add up the husbands and wifes and children, that’s huge right?

A huge ballroom, maybe twice the size of KL’s largest ballroom, a huge white gondola-ish stage with many lighted globes, 2 mingling areas, a band of musicians, at least 4 food stations, massive amount of flowers transforming the place into a garden-like setting, and countless guest coming from all over the world, not to mention the many security personnel including one real life sniper (i didn’t actually see him with his gun, but he was carrying something huge on his back) to protect Indonesian President Susilo Bambang and ex-President Megawati who attended the event. If that’s not massive, i don’t know what is!

















The one other thing that was different was that in Indonesian weddings, guests don’t really sit down and eat the full 8-9 course dinners. They actually eat as and when they want but the “must do” tradition is to go up stage and greet the bride and groom and their respective families. So imagine, more than three thousand guests waiting for their turn to shake the happy couple’s hands. I think that’s all the bride and groom did for a solid 2 hours!



After Suseng and Jessica had finished shaking hands with everyone, the bridesmaids and the groomsmen went up on stage to present a musical number to the bride and groom. Suseng, not wanting to be out-staged by them, decided to take the stage himself to belt out 2 songs for his lovely beautiful wife Jessica. He wowed everyone with his singing (even Fiona didn’t know that her brother could carry a tune so well!) and made a tear or two roll off Jessica’s cheeks.



The funniest part of the night was when it was time for Jessica to toss the bouquet. I was very shocked to see two grown men fighting with a young girl barely into her teens (Fiona’s niece, Coco) to catch the bouquet! Believe me, the guy in the striped shirt really wanted the bouquet! And he got it! It’s ok Coco, you’re still young and have another wedding to go to, to hopefully catch the bouquet….


So aunty Fiona, when can your niece catch your bouquet? Hint Hint!!
























































